Beautiful Memories of Love and Laughter
We've all heard it said that laughter is the best medicine,
but very few heed this advice. As a matter of fact, children laugh about 400
times a day, while adults only laugh about 15 times a day. This is unfortunate
because research studies have proven how laughter not only has health benefits
but can have a positive impact on our marriage as well.
Laughter has a positive impact on a marriage. People look
younger and more approachable when they laugh. By the same token, their
laughter can be infectious and generate more laughter. Laughter eases the
mundane times of marriage and can break you out of conflict. It has also been
found that fun times together create a relaxed kind of intimacy that
strengthens the bond between a husband and a wife.
In my marriage of 15 years, there have been many ups and
downs. But laughter and love has helped us to get through all the tough times.
There have been so many wonderful memories created because of our little silly
mistakes.
I would like to share one such incident with you all.
I was busy cooking in the kitchen one day. My husband was
out watching some cooking show. He wanted to try cooking one of the chicken
dishes that was being shown on the TV.
He stepped in the kitchen and told me he wanted to cook the
chicken dish. I was shocked. He had never cooked before. But he looked very
confident. Looking at him so confident I decided to give it a try. I had
already cooked the rice and dal. He asked me to step out of the kitchen and took
charge. I went outside, switched the channel and started watching the daily
soap.
Almost after an hour later, I went to check inside to check
what was happening. Well the kitchen table was a complete mess. My husband had
cut his finger. But the dish seemed fine. I tasted it and it was amazing for
his first try. I was really touched. And looking at the look at my face, he got
very happy.
But I was kind of upset that the kitchen was a mess. So he
again offered to clean it up. Well again he messed it up more. He used the dish
washing liquid too much and the sink got too bubbly and again it was a mess. It
was a very cute scene. He was trying so hard and it was so funny and cute.
There have been so many such wonderful memories between us. The
combination of love, laughter, silliness, understanding and support is indeed
the perfect recipe for a happily ever after.
Share your memories too.
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